WELCOME

I am SO excited to be documenting your beautiful wedding day. I first want to say how grateful I are that you have chosen me to be there on your wedding day. The longer I document weddings the more and more I learn and the more information I want to share to make wedding days flow as easy as possible, give you tips on how to take the best photos and make the most of your wedding day and any sessions you may have booked. In this wedding packet you are going to find tons of tips, information and details that will help you for your engagement session, bridal session and wedding day photography. Please take the time to read through these and visit this packet any time you may have a question for me and see if it may be answered in here first. If not, please feel free to ask me any questions at all. I love to know more about you and your wedding as it helps me photograph your wedding better.

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scheduling sessions

Many questions about when to have your sessions and I’m here to help.

Engagement session - you can take those any time you want! I highly recommend the nicest weather as we’re outside for a couple of hours taking photos. So often I find myself photographing engagement sessions in April-May and then mid-September to mid-November. Those are the best times of years when it’s the most beautiful and comfortable weather. Some other things to think about would be if you wanted a photo for a save the date. You’d want to take those before 6 months before your wedding date so I can have them edited (takes about three to four weeks to edit) so you can order and have them shipped. I have noticed many couples doing save the dates that match their invitations or doing a watercolor/drawing of their venue instead of a photo for their save the date. This puts more focus on choosing a more ideal season for their engagement session vs just timing for the 6 month mark.

Bridal Session - Many times we are waiting to hear when your wedding dress will be in, altered and ready to go - Most bridal sessions are scheduled anytime up until one month before the wedding date. Most sessions are taken 1-2 months before the wedding and if needed if you want to have them edited and ready to print for your wedding. If your dress will not be in and ready in this time just let me know and I’ll see what we can do. Don't stress! Also keep in mind the weather just like for engagement photos! Best timing for the most comfortable weather outside for long periods of time are April-May (and early June) and then mid-September to mid-November.

TIP - It takes 3-4 weeks to edit and deliver a session. Keep that in mind when scheduling your session

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Tips for your engagement session - What all is involved - What to wear and what to do?

Engagement sessions are up to two hours and I schedule those Monday-Thursdays on weekday evenings about 2 hours before the sun sets. They include up to three outfits and two nearby locations so that we don’t lose too much light driving.

Here is a link to my engagement session outfit Pinterest board that I constantly add to to add ideas, looks, outfits and more.

https://www.pinterest.com/erinwilsonphoto/love/

Tips for your engagement session:

- many colors look amazing on cameras, some of my personal favorites are neutrals, soft muted colors and jewel tones but if you love color do a fun pop of color go for it just watch out for neons because they cast colors onto your neck and chest that cannot be edited out

THINK ABOUT THIS - If you frame these photos and hang them in your home forever or for a long time…what colors are your home? Do you think you’ll change colors? Neutrals and more subtle colors are sometimes an easy idea if you aren’t sure. If you love color and will always and forever have a colorful home then go for it! Go for your favorites.

- if you're able avoid wearing neon colors, super super bright coral pink or bright Christmas red...brighter bold warm colors reflect colors right back onto your skin and jawline that cannot be edited out. Colors are great so don’t be afraid just not the extreme neon color variations. They can also be outside of the color spectrum on some cameras and not pick up the correct color on the cameras sensor.

- Truthfully so many things look amazing on camera. I would take a look at the Pinterest link I listed above for some references. I find beautiful satin dresses, structured dresses and flown dresses look amazing. If you want a more cozy look for fall and winter you could layer up with blazers and sweaters. I find textures and fabrics look so beautiful. Things to watch out for are fabrics like jersey fabric that are thin and could show undergarments or polo shirts on guys don’t always look very structured.

- for guys button downs and nice pants photograph best, they can change it up by adding a blazer, sweater, etc if that's their style!

- if you're able try to avoid work boots or older tennis shoes...any other kinds of shoes are great just maybe not the tennis shoes you'd mow the lawn or work out in (if they are really worn in they will look really worn in in the photos )

- polo/golf shirts don't photograph as well as the fabric tends to look a little sloppy on camera but button downs and plain t-shirts are great - other ideas are sweaters, henley t-shirts, blazers, sweaters or vests

- I will more than likely take photos of your hands if you’re engaged to show off the ring so it’s best to keep your hands tidy and clean and even get your nails done if you’d like (remind the guys too! his hands will be in the photos as well)

- I do HIGHLY recommend professional hair and makeup if you’re able because there is a way that hair and makeup artist apply makeup and fix your hair for camera that you cannot replicate unless you are a professional…they understand what translates well on camera more than we can see with our natural eye - you more than likely only do an engagement session once so it’s an investment you will absolutely love - even if you don’t normally wear makeup or much at all just trust me on this one…this is one thing I wouldn’t skip out on because you’ll have these photos forever and you want to look your best and they know how to apply makeup light and easy or more dramatic that is best for your style and to look great on camera - you can do simple loose curls, straight or an actual hair style - totally up to you! Also, just to prepare you if you haven’t had professional makeup before or aren’t one for wearing much makeup. It’ll feel like a lot of makeup but I promise it’ll photograph much lighter and much more natural in photos.

- For guys, (thanks to Josh, my husband who shoots with me a ton, who pointed this out) it’s best to get a trim or a fresh hair cut a few days before your session and if you have facial hair…it’s a good idea to get that trimmed and fresh for your photos too for the engagement session AND wedding - hey maybe all the guys can go get a fresh cut the morning of the wedding while you’re hanging out or hire someone to come in and get the guys trimmed up.

- You are welcome to pick whichever kinds of outfits you want but if you need a suggestion you could try a casual outfit, a date night outfit and if you're feeling like you'd like to go all out you can do a dressier outfit like something you'd wear as a guest to a wedding to give your photos variety - you never know what will photograph best on you so options are always a good idea.

-think about what’s on your wrists and do you want to have an Apple Watch in all your photos or a Fitbit? Maybe select a classic watch or no watch at all for guys and watch for rubber bands on wrists and jewelry for women.

- Try on your outfits and take some iPhone photos to see how they look on your phone camera first and see if you love how you look in them.

- don’t get a spray tan too close to your session or you may have orange hands, elbows and streaks …you may also look too orange in your photos in general so I always say it’s best to get one a few days before your session if you’re able rather than the day before.

- bring some champagne or wine to sip on during your session - we can even incorporate it into your photos if you’d like.

- consider the entire vibe of your session and if your outfits will make sense in their location (for example…would you be downtown in a sun dress…or on a mountain top in a full suit?)

- BE YOURSELF - have fun!

- Don’t wear an outfit that doesn’t represent you or that you don’t feel comfortable in - make sure your outfit fits well, isn’t too short or too tight so you don’t feel uncomfortable..I want you to feel your best!

- If you’re fun, then wear a fun bright print, if you’re cool and relaxed wear some cute cool outfits, don’t feel you have to be romantic and classic if you aren’t like that in your normal life.

- you want to look back at your photos and feel like they don’t look like you!

- wear patterns and stripes and prints if you’d like, patterns are amazing and I always love something different.

- be careful with tiny checkered prints and teeny tiny stripes (but normal and big stripes are great) as they can cause banding and digital moire in photos.

- Please tell me if you have fun ideas or photos you’ve seen and are inspired by. I want you to love your photos.

If you want to try something different than you’ve ever seen anyone else do let me know!! I’m ALWAYS up for an adventure and brainstorming. I love doing stuff like that. I also don’t mind helping you with outfits if you want to send me photos or need help. I often ask to see outfits and it helps me pick out backgrounds. That’s always some of my best photos!

Some places that you can book to have more privacy and have more unique photos are places like Moss Mountain Farm near Little Rock and Philbrook Museum in Tulsa Oklahoma.

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BRIDALS - tips and ideas for your bridal session

If you have a bridal session in your package already and you know what it is…this part isn’t for you. If you didn’t get a bridal session in your package and want to know what it is, it’s simply a session that we do 1-2 months before your wedding date where you get to do your hair and makeup trial, get in your dress, carry a bouquet and take photos of you in your dress. It’s a southern tradition for weddings but it’s not always necessary…completely up to you. On a wedding day I may get only 5 minutes to take photos of you in your dress. This kind of session is a little over an hour long and we can take our time documenting you in your favorite dress of all time. I take my time photographing every angle close up and from afar. I love bridal sessions, they are one of my favorite things. It’s your time to be a model for a day and get all glammed up and take gorgeous photos to last you a life time. Many of my brides will frame and display a photo at their wedding or make a small bridal book of images.

Tips for your session:

- Get a bouquet! Get one that is really similar to your bridal bouquet in size and colors because you will love having something to do with your hands in the photos and they add a little something and give us things to do for poses (It will look gorgeous, last a lifetime in photos and be fun to play with for your photos)

- If your florist offers you a complimentary bridal bouquet with your floral package be sure to check it will look like your be a big full size bouquet like you want for your wedding (Local Arkansas Brides Tanarah Luxe Floral and PIGMINT give you a sample bouquet that will not look anything like your regular bouquet and you may be disappointed this has happened to my past brides so trust me on this)

- Don’t be afraid to show your makeup and hair artist exactly what you want and tell them during the session to change something if you aren’t sure

-makeup will look heavier in person than it will show up in photos…makeup artists know all the tricks to make you look beautiful in photos (I promise it will look lighter in your photos)

- If you want to be fun or try something out if you do an updo maybe right at the end of the session we can take your hair down and take photos with your hair down for the last ten minutes just to see or have variety with your photos (this way you have two hair options for your photos)

- You don’t have to wear your wedding shoes to your session, especially if we go outside, I’d rather you keep your shoes clean and perfect for the wedding! Just bring neutral colored shoes or heels that are the right height for your dress

- You don’t need a sheet or anything under your dress. If it’s muddy we won’t go out in the mud..I want to keep your dress clean! I won’t risk it and go anywhere that’s dirty. Grass is actually surprisingly clean if it’s nice grass, it’ll push your dress up off the dirt and keep it clean. When we walk around we’ll lift your dress up and hold it up. Many bridal stores can get you a recommendation for a dry cleaner.

- Don’t worry about getting your dress dirty, you can get it cleaned! Your photos last forever and you only wear your dress once or twice so it’s better to do what is needed to get the best photos (most small dirty spots do not show up in photos if something happens…don’t stress). Have fun, don’t stress and move in that beautiful gown! We’ll get it cleaned after. :) Photos last forever so do what you can to make the best photos! Again, it’s really muddy we have to worry about and we won’t be going in the mud.

- We can try different locations or looks than where you get married if you want! If there is another venue you want to rent an hour to shoot at or something else you love we can try that.

- I get inspired by what people wear so show me what your dress looks like and I can help brainstorm locations!

-if you think you want to something interesting or unique let me know!! I LOVE a good styled bridal session or something DIFFERENT!

Wedding Day Tips - Info - Ideas

If you have a wedding planner they will help you with many of these thing and please take their advice and ideas! This information on the photography and video side of your wedding to make the day and the entire process smoother and easier! These are things to help your day run smoother and that you can be as prepared as possible.

TIMELINE - The first I want to talk about a sample timeline. So many questions come from a photography timeline and when to schedule your hair and makeup and to give you an idea of what your day will look like. This is a sample timeline with a first look and without a first look. About 95% of the weddings we document have been doing a first look and I will start with that timeline first but note this is a timeline for a wedding that is all in one location. If there is travel involved we will have to keep that in mind as well. If you have larger or smaller families or wedding party times can be adjusted. This is a sample but the photography portrait times and order typically stay the same:

(Please note if you are having a FALL or WINTER wedding the sun sets very early and if you want natural light candid photos (which most people do) you will want to either have a first look or a much earlier ceremony start time)

FIRST LOOK -

1:00 p.m. Getting Ready Photos and Video

2:30 p.m. Get into Dress

2:45 p.m. First look with bridesmaid or a parent/sibling

3:00 p.m. Bride and Groom First Look

3:15 p.m. Bride and Groom Portraits Photo/Video

4:00 p.m. Wedding Party Photos/Video

4:30 p.m. Family Photos

5:00 p.m. Break for Bride and Groom - At this time Photographer and Videographer will go document empty reception space - if you are getting married at a church or a chapel at a different location we need to figure out when to document the empty reception space

5:30 p.m Photographer/Videographer prep and set up cameras and sound equipment for ceremony

6:00 p.m. Ceremony

6:30 p.m. Reception to follow (Sometimes we do extended family photos right after the ceremony)

10 p.m. Send off

TRADITIONAL AISLE LOOK -

1:00 p.m Getting Ready Photos

2:20 p.m Bride Gets into Dress

2:40 p.m. First Look with a parent or bridesmaids

3:00 p.m. Bride and Bridesmaid Photos/Video

3:30 p.m. Bride and any immediate individual family photos

4:00 p.m. Groom and Groomsmen Portraits/Video

4:30 p.m. Groom and any immediate individual family photos

5:00 p.m. Break for Bride and Groom At this time Photographer and Videographer will go document empty reception space - if you are getting married at a church or a chapel at a different location we need to figure out when to document the empty reception space

6:00 p.m. Ceremony

6:30 p.m. Family Photos

6:50 p.m. Wedding Party Photos/Video

7:00 p.m. Bride and Groom Portraits/Video

7:35 p.m. Reception to follow

10:00 p.m. Send Off

(If the sun is nice and we have time we sometimes sneak in 5-10 minutes of sunset photos and video and sneak out of the reception)

Essentially it’s 30-40 minutes for bride and groom portraits, 30-45 minutes for wedding party photos and then 30 minutes for family photos depending on the size of the wedding party or size of the family portrait list. If you do a first look you can take all of these beforehand and if you do a traditional aisle look I try to do everything I can before and leave the group photos and bride and groom photos for after. There will be many group photos because a majority of the photos needed include both of you! So either way a first look or traditional is great and it’s totally up to you. Just choose whatever is best for you. There is no wrong or right way. Your preference and what you want for your wedding is completely up to your preference. The timeline is just to help you really visualize how long each part will take.

The most important thing I do want to mention is that if you have a FALL or WINTER wedding the sun sets very early. If you want natural light (sunlight) photos you will need to have your ceremony earlier and more than likely do a first look unless you want to have a much earlier ceremony time to fit in all your photos after. Every single one of our couples wants natural light photos outside or in an area with natural light and so this is 100% doable and will take planning on our part when we make the timeline and when you choose the ceremony time.

If you want to have a first look with your dad, brothers, bridesmaids reveal, etc. We need to put that in the schedule. Many couples don't tell me they want this and it’s more of a surprise on the wedding day and we don’t have enough time. So if we can make sure you are in your dress in plenty of time to schedule all of these that will be even better!

Be on time, if you are able! Especially just finishing getting ready on time is the biggest thing. 5 minutes here and 5 minutes there really can affect your entire day when you only have 30 minutes for photos of the two of you. That’s usually the only place I can cut short because of logistics and it just means fewer photos of you and I want you to have as much as you can for the two of you!! So be sure to really talk with your hair and makeup person and make sure that you are ready in plenty of time. Bridesmaids can have a little more time to finish getting ready after you’re ready but really important you are pretty much ready by the time we arrive besides some last touches on hair and makeup.

  • Also, if you want your mom to get you dressed in photos or someone that is important to you zipping up or buttoning your dress they also need to be ready before you too! Something that not everyone thinks about because hey….you aren’t getting married every weekend right?!

  • If you want a bridesmaids reveal add about 10 minutes to your schedule

  • If you want a first look with dad or brothers also add 10 minutes to your schedule

  • Sometimes bridesmaids want to be in full glam for a pajama photo and we’re running behind on the timeline and it makes it even more behind waiting for them to put lipgloss on for a pajama photo before you get in your dress. If they need this please let them know before the pajama photo to go ahead and get on all the things they want for this photo and if they just aren’t ready remind them it’s just a little getting ready photo and it’s okay if they don’t have full makeup or hair or something. :) They will for sure be ready by the portrait time.

Details! Details! Details!

When I first arrive on a wedding day things I do is document some details about your wedding to start telling the story of your day. If you would put together a box or bag of all your personal details like wedding rings (both of them), invitation suite, shoes, garter, perfume/cologne, boutonnieres, heirloom personal items or sentimental items and any kind of details you want us to document when we first arrive. If your florist can let you have extra flowers or anything that flows with your wedding for detail photos they would really help!

Just for fun - you could get special perfumes or colognes just for your wedding day and then use them on every anniversary or special date to remind you of your wedding day!

Details take me about 30-40 minutes to photograph depending on how many you have and how much you want me to style them. Keep that in mind when we are making your timeline. If you know you love detail photos and want more candid photos of you getting ready I recommend adding a little more getting ready time to your timeline.

You are welcome to send me photo inspiration photos of things that you like! I love that and helps me understand your vision and what you love. Here are some examples of photo lists that I would love to have before your wedding date. I’m going to document everything that happens all day long but having a family photo list is very helpful to know exactly what you want on your wedding day.

Photo Shot List:

I ask you to supply us with a family photo list and any other important groupings and I will supply you with a photo template below you can copy and paste and make your own. You can do this at any time up until a week before your wedding. No rush on this, you can do this at a time that is convenient for you. I’ve written them out in a way that flows well for me as I’m calling names out. I’m meeting everyone for the first time on a wedding day and I learn relationships faster than I learn everyone’s names. If you want to add names next to the relationships you are very welcome to do that too!

For family photos, this is how I like to list it. I always photograph parents, grandparents, and siblings for sure and this is how I typically order them:

Bride's Side:

Bride and Groom with parents, siblings, and grandparents

Bride and Groom with parents and siblings

Bride and Groom with parents

Bride with both parents

Bride with Mom

Bride with Dad

Bride with siblings

Bride with each sibling

Bride (and groom) with each grandparent (or each set of grandparents)



Grooms Side:

Bride and Groom with parents, siblings, and grandparents

Bride and Groom with parents and siblings

Bride and Groom with parents

Groom with both parents

Groom with Mom

Groom with Dad

Groom with siblings

Groom with each sibling

Groom (and bride) with each grandparent (or each set of grandparents)


Now you can add on extended family like say 'The Smiths' and whoever is related to your dad or however you want to do that. It seems to be easier calling everyone out when I can say 'Now we need all The Smith family' or 'We need all the Smiths' or whatever that group of people is named or called. Or say a group of people came from another state you can say 'we need the California group.' or however you want to! It's easier to say a group of people vs each name as well as saying a relationship to someone like 'brides mom or brides sister' vs Katie and Mrs. Smith, etc. It just flows really fast and I am able to understand relationships faster and easier than names on the day of. Hopefully that all makes sense! I also ask about family dynamics or anything else you think I should know about. You can also add other groupings to this list like family friends, sorority group photos or fraternity group photos. I will also photograph all bridesmaids, groomsmen, in groups and individuals, and flower girls and ring bearers during wedding party portraits. If there are any special groupings let me know! PLEASE let me know if there are any family dynamics I should know about. I do not want to call out anyone who passed away or someone who is divorced.

For wedding party I will always photograph the full wedding party all together, bride with bridesmaids (and individuals), groom with groomsmen (and individuals), flower girls, ushers, house party, etc. Everyone there for the wedding party and all the combinations you want. I have a flow and way that I do that every wedding to make sure I get everyone. You’re welcome to write it down but if you want to save time and sanity just know I will be getting those.

I don’t necessarily need a photo list of all the moments for your wedding because OF COURSE I’m going to get you getting in your dress, the details you prepare for me, candids all day long, the first kiss, the first look, first dances and cake cutting and all the things that make up a wedding. I am HERE for this!! I live for it! I want to get all of these moments and I’m looking for them waiting for them and all over it. You don’t have to make a list for me I am there all day long constantly looking for opportunities and things to photograph and I’ve photographed over 300 now weddings so I know not to miss the first kiss. You also don’t want my face buried in a piece of paper missing major major shots and moments happening all day. I will photograph your day as it flows and feels and get all the main highlights AND things you wouldn't even be expecting. However, if something special is very important to you, PLEASE put that with the family list. This could be your sorority sisters at the reception or a photo that your mom and grandma did at their wedding and you want it recreated. Just anything really special or important add that to the family list and we will do everything in our power to get it. It can even be a fun thing you saw on instagram or tiktok that you just want to recreate or anything like that. Yes!! Let’s do this!! Just know we are going to get you getting into your dress, walking down the aisle, the kiss, the dances, the cake, and all the things!! If there are extra special things to you…please let me know.

It’s okay to be realistic. Not everything goes perfectly on a wedding day and sometimes family members wander off and you can’t get all the photos you want because Aunt so-and-so left early or cannot be found. Or it rains and we have to re-arrange the photo timeline or list. So many things can happen but know it will all be okay and you will get to marry the love of your life and get to relive that day through your photos over and over again. It’s not about it being perfect, it’s about it being YOU and YOUR LOVE!

Here are some general tips to make your wedding day better - smoother - thebestdayever!

  • Slow down and enjoy every moment - I know I know a lot of people are going to tell you that but really…just enjoy it. If you have hired all the best vendors for the day then you know they will be doing their job and everything will run smoothly and you will get married to the love of your life.

  • Things that help make your day run even smoother would be making sure you have your personal details ready to go first thing when we get there, have the room or space you are getting ready in picked up and tidy so that there aren’t undergarments or bags and shoes in the background of your photos.

  • Make sure your hair and makeup is being finished up well before you are getting in your dress because before getting in your dress because you will probably want robe photos and have a moment to freshen up before getting in your dress. I would maybe even just have the finish time nearly be 30 minutes after we arrive. That way we’re getting photos of some lipstick getting put on or blush or finishing touches on hair really. Then if anything goes behind you have a little wiggle room.

  • Please be sure to schedule all your hair and makeup early enough that we aren’t waiting on hair and makeup to take portraits or for first looks. If you run late on hair and makeup it cuts in your photo time which creates less portraits which is the most important part for photos and the ones you will frame and hang and I want to make sure you get all the photos you deserve. I know I said this earlier in this packet but it is really so so important. If anything goes late during the day it starts with hair and makeup so I really can't stress this enough which is why I mention possibly telling them that you need to be finished about 30 minutes after we arrive (even if that’s earlier than you ‘get into your dress’). You’ll want to be ready to do your robe/pajama photo, reading a letter or getting a gift, doing last minute deodorant or undergarment changes, restroom break, just little things that you want to have time for after hair and makeup but before you get in your dress. So I want you to have time for that and not feel rushed.

  • Hey, we’re going to have fun! Portraits and all the things photo related are pretty fun! So relax and don’t be nervous.

    • PRO TIP - even after I finish posing or giving instructions be into the moment or have fun and be playful during bride and groom portraits and wedding party photos. The in-between stuff is the best!

    • Just do what you do in regular life, be sweet to each other, look at each other a lot and and soak up the moment and we’re there to document it all. I’ll give instructions but just make it all your own!

  • HAVE FUN! Did I say have fun yet? Laugh and smile and be into every moment. I can’t tell you enough how many serious faces there are during first dances and cake cutting because everyone is nervous or worried. This is the BEST part…smile at each other and cherish all these moments. They will be reflected in your photos and video in the most beautiful way. Just look at each other and remember these are the best moments. If you ever hear me sneak in and say ‘remember to have fun’ it’s so that you’ll smile and enjoy the moment!

  • WALK SLOW. I’m being serious…haha! Walk slow down the aisle, entering the reception and at your exit. We are trying to take the best photos and video and walking slowly helps a ton. I know you’ll be nervous and if you can remember anything it’s to do things a little slower than you that you feel at the moment. Walk slow ESPECIALLY when you come back down the aisle if you can even remember or think about it! haha! I know you will be so in the moment but if you can remember anything just slow down in general.

  • This tip is from my husband Josh (who shoots with me often), he recommends guys and especially the groom get a fresh hair cut within a week of the wedding if not a few days before. Everyone looks MUCH better with a fresh hair cut and all the lines and neck hair is shaved and neat for photos. This is for a beard too! Ladies spend so much time making themselves gorgeous for the day we want to make sure guys look just as amazing. You may even considering hiring a barber/stylist to come in and trim up all the guys hair the day of the wedding so they look sharp. This would make for fun getting ready photos for them too.

  • More men’s tips from Josh, if you get your suit altered or tailored be sure to try it on in the store after they have made the adjustments when you go to pick it up. Don't wait until the week of the wedding or the day of because then you are stuck with what you have. If the guys can be sure to try it on every time changes are made they can not only make sure that it fits well AND they aren’t missing anything. We had a groom pick up his suit and didn’t try it on or look in there and they forgot the pants. So just be extra careful.

  • If you can have the grooms ready well before they are scheduled to take photos. They should be ready before you are putting your dress on. We can’t be in two places at once so if you want us to document the guys getting ready we need to make sure it’s in the schedule to be in their room getting that and then get over to the bride and bridesmaids’ room to document the bride getting in her dress and all the sweet things that happen around that.

    • PRO TIP - have some fun drinks or snacks for the guys to enjoy or a cigar so the guys feel included and have fun while getting ready too.

    • I also love to document groom details if you want to have those with your bridal details I’ll photograph those too. Ideas for those can be shoes, tie, tie clip, cuff links, boutonniere, cologne, ring, etc.

  • Guys - if you aren’t sure how to tie ties or bow ties maybe practice the weeks before watching some youtube videos! If not, Josh can help too (when he’s there shooting with me)! He’s pro.

  • Ladies - watch for rubber bands, apple watches and fit bits on your wrist…I’ll look for them day of and remind everyone to take them off but it helps to mention it too.

  • Guys - leave your beers, sunglasses, keys and phones in the room when we go to take photos we promise we’ll be SO quick taking photos and video…like as fast and fun and possible to get photos and video taken so you can get right back to drinking. It’s such a funny thing but when we start photos we’re always trying to find a place for all the guys to put their stuff and it takes extra time and it’s always kind of a thing so if they just leave it in the room it goes faster and we’ll get them right back to drinking and snap chatting! I swear I’ll go as fast as I can and still get you amazing photos and Josh will get amazing video. However, if you have custom glasses or want to bring a nice bottle of liquor and glasses out or cigars that would look beautiful in photos or videos you can bring those out for photos and video if you’d like. It’s more bottles of beers and sunglasses is where we’re having to find spots to put them while taking photos.

  • Wedding party tips - If you think your wedding party or friends may cut up a bit on the wedding day you could do a little day of or rehearsal dinner pep talk just say ‘hey guys we hired pretty awesome photographer and videographer if you guys could just listen to their instructions and follow along it’ll be more fun and the photos and video will be better for us.’ OR something nice along those lines. Just showing them that you are excited for you photos and video and hopefully that will help them respect your wishes and go along well. We want the day to be about YOU and a little reminder to the wedding party helps them listen and take instruction well.

Always feel free to email me!

You will never bother me with any odd question you may have. I don’t mind helping at all. If anything having a little more information about your wedding and you guys as a couple is very helpful.

  • Just a little heads up about my schedule. I often shoot in the evenings and drive 1-2 hours for locations there and back. So I can be traveling and shooting quite a bit in the evening. If you email in the evening or at anytime and I take a day to get back with you I might just be traveling.

  • I do prefer emails vs text messages because I have a habit of accidentally opening text messages while I’m shooting or traveling and I don’t want to miss anything you’ve sent me. So if you email me I know I won’t miss it!

  • I’m happy to help with outfit ideas and location ideas for your sessions. Anytime! Just ask me.

  • Just a reminder that when we schedule sessions those are scheduled Monday through Thursday evening around two hours before the sun sets for the best lighting. Being a wedding photographer my weddings are filled with rehearsal dinners, weddings, send off brunches, traveling, etc.

  • One more reminder about when your galleries are delivered. If I have photographed a session I will get that to you within 3-4 weeks (previews within a week). I will have your wedding photos, and any wedding events, ready 8-10 weeks from your wedding date (previews within a week).

  • If you have a wedding album with your collection here’s what you can do to get that process going after your wedding photos are ready. Choose around 65 of your favorite images and ‘favorite’ those in your gallery. Let me know when those are ready and I’ll get started on your album design.

Cherish The Moments

Don’t forget to stop and enjoy each moment of your wedding planning process. Especially your big wedding weekend, enjoy everything!

When things are moving fast, remember to stop and take a moment for yourself to take it all in.

I’ll take the photos to help you remember the rest.

Just have fun!! Being yourself and having fun honestly makes for the best photos. So don’t stress just have fun!!

Thank you SO much for taking the time to read through this and I hope it’s super super helpful. I have been gathering tips over the years and trying to make a list of everything we can possibly think of that can help your day be the best it can be! I may be adding to this here and there so feel free to check back and save this link to refer through throughout your planning process.

Again, SO EXCITED YOU CHOSE ME TO DOCUMENT YOUR DAY!!! I already adore you to pieces.

Erin